Walking the line between what you want for your wedding and what your guests expect can feel like a full-time job in diplomacy. Most couples start out wanting to please everyone, only to realize that every decision—from the wording on the RSVP card to the specific dress code—carries a hidden weight of tradition or expectation. The real challenge is making firm choices that reflect your vision without creating unnecessary friction with the people you love most. This guide provides a framework for handling the most sensitive guest-list and etiquette hurdles with clarity and grace. By setting these boundaries early, you…